Here are just some of the ways you can Say “I Do” with Handwrytten.

For the Couple: Personal Touches for Every Step

Ask Your VIPs to Be Part of Your Big Day

Asking someone to be in your wedding party is a moment worth marking. Whether it’s your best friend, sister, or cousin, a handwritten note turns a simple ask into a heartfelt memory.

Example Message: “Will you stand by me on the most important day of my life? I can’t imagine saying “I do” without you there. Will you be my bridesmaid?”

Pro Tip: Include a photo or small keepsake with your card to create a full “proposal” experience for your wedding party—even if they live far away.

Handwrite Your Save the Dates

While digital invitations are common, a handwritten Save the Date makes your wedding stand out from the very beginning. A personalized handwritten message on a beautifully crafted card can instantly set the tone for your wedding.

Example Message: “We said YES! Now it’s your turn to Save the Date: [Name] & [Name], [Wedding Date], [Location]. Formal invitation to follow—we can’t wait to celebrate with you!”

Pro Tip: Schedule your cards in advance using Handwrytten, so they arrive right on time—even while you’re busy planning.

Thank Vendors, Guests, and Everyone in Between

From your planner to your photographer to your flower girl, there are so many people to thank throughout the process.

Example Message (for vendors): “Thank you for going above and beyond to make our day so special. We’ll never forget the magic you helped create!”

Example Message (for guests): “Thank you for celebrating with us and for your generous gift. Your presence truly made our day even more meaningful.”

Pro Tip: Upload your guest list to Handwrytten and send all your thank-you cards in one batch—each one still looks individually handwritten.

For Businesses: Celebrate Clients, Partners, and Employees

Congratulate Clients on Their Engagement

If you’re a realtor, jeweler, or in any wedding-adjacent industry, this is your moment to shine with a handwritten note that shows you care beyond the sale.

Example Message: “Congratulations on your engagement! Wishing you both love and laughter as you plan your special day. We’re so happy to be part of your journey.”

Pro Tip: Include a small gift card or discount code to keep your brand top of mind through the wedding planning process.

Celebrate Employee Milestones

Don’t overlook your team! Recognizing weddings and engagements shows you value employees as people—not just coworkers. A handwritten note can express appreciation while celebrating life’s big milestones.

Example Message: “Wishing you and your partner all the love and happiness in the world. Congratulations on your wedding—we’re thrilled for you!”

Pro Tip: Time the card to arrive before their time off or the day they return—it’s a small gesture that makes a big impact.

Strengthen Referral and Vendor Relationships

Supporting partners and vendors through their own life milestones creates deeper, more genuine relationships. Show your business partners that you care beyond just the work you do together.

Example Message: “Congratulations on your wedding! It’s always a joy working with you, and we’re so excited to see you celebrate your own special day.”

Pro Tip: Don’t wait for a holiday—life events like weddings are a great reason to connect authentically.

Add a Personal Touch to Your Brand Outreach

Wedding-themed promotions or seasonal campaigns get a boost from a handwritten card that doesn’t feel like traditional marketing. Make your promotional messages stand out.

Example Message (promo): “Planning a wedding? Let us help with a special gift just for you. Enjoy 15% off your next visit—congrats on your engagement!”

Pro Tip: Use Handwrytten’s bulk sending and automation features to scale personalized outreach without losing the personal feel.

From “Yes” to “I Do” to “Thank You”—We’ve Got You Covered

From proposal to honeymoon and everything in between, Handwrytten is here to help you celebrate love in all its forms. Whether you’re planning a wedding or supporting one, our handwritten cards make every message more meaningful—without the stress of writing them all yourself.

Need help getting started?
Explore our wedding-friendly card collection or reach out to our sales team at sales@handwrytten.com for custom solutions.

Visit www.handwrytten.com to make your wedding moments (and business touchpoints) unforgettable.

Frequently Asked Questions

Can I customize the design of the card for my wedding theme or brand?

Yes! In addition to our wide selection of elegant and modern card styles, we offer fully custom card printing options. You can upload your own artwork or design to match your wedding theme, brand colors, or company logo for a completely personalized touch.

Do you offer handwriting that matches my own for personal wedding messages?

Yes! With our Personalized Font option, we can create a custom font that mimics your handwriting style. Just fill out a handwriting packet, and our design team will do the rest. It’s perfect for adding your personal touch to every card, even when we write and send them for you.

How far in advance should I schedule cards like Save the Dates or thank-yous?

We recommend scheduling Save the Dates 6–8 months ahead of your wedding and thank-you cards within 1–2 months after the event. With Handwrytten, you can upload your list and schedule all your cards in advance so they go out on time—without adding more to your to-do list later.

Can I use Handwrytten for destination weddings or international guests?

Yes! Handwrytten sends cards internationally. Whether you’re inviting someone across the country or across the globe, we’ve got you covered—just be sure to allow extra time for international delivery.

What if I don’t have everyone’s mailing address yet?

No problem—Handwrytten can help you gather addresses with our address collection tool. Share a link with your guests, friends, or clients, and they can securely submit their mailing info. It’s a great way to streamline your planning without chasing down every detail.

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Key Takeaways

• Craft personalized bridal shower thank-you cards by expressing heartfelt thanks, mentioning the specific gift, with the message’s focus being on the guest’s presence, with a prompt, handwritten message.
• Follow one of our simple, customizable message templates for each relationship and type of gift, ensuring every thank-you note is personal and sincere.
• Utilize services like Handwrytten to combine the traditional charm of handwritten cards with the convenience of modern automation for timely and stylish gratitude.

A basic wedding shower thank you card wording template

During the flurry of wedding celebrations, taking a moment to compose bridal shower thank-yous allows you to appreciate the generosity of your guests. A thank-you card forms a connection of gratitude between you and your dear ones.

It’s simple: start with a heartfelt acknowledgment of their presence, noting the joy their company brought to your special day. Then, move on to the bridal wedding gift they contributed, be it a coveted item from your wedding registry or a sweet surprise, and share how it fits perfectly into your newlywed life. Finally, conclude with anticipation of their presence during your upcoming wedding day or a sincere note of missing their company if they can’t make it. For example:

Dear [Guest Name],

I am still smiling from the bridal shower and I have you to thank for that! Your company added so much to the joy of the day. The [Gift Item] you chose is absolutely wonderful and will be put to good use as [Your Partner’s Name] and I start our new chapter together. It’s gifts like yours that turn a house into a home.

Looking forward to having you with us on the wedding day. Your presence is what makes these moments unforgettable.

Warmest thanks,

[Your Name]

Remember, a thank-you card is more than just etiquette; it’s a personal token of your appreciation.

How to write a bridal shower thank you card in 5 steps

While the prospect of creating a sincere and heartfelt bridal shower thank-you card may seem challenging, the key lies in personalization. Wedding shower thank you notes should be a mirror of your gratitude while acting as subtle wedding invitations, reflecting the uniqueness of every gift and the presence of each guest.

To write a message that touches the heart, follow these five essential steps.

1. Consider your relationship with the guest

Each relationship with your shower guests is distinctive, and your thank-you note should reflect this. For your lifelong friends and cherished family members, sprinkle your note with shared memories and inside jokes, making it as special as your relationship.

When it comes to acquaintances or distant relatives, maintain a warm yet respectful tone, expressing how much you appreciated their thoughtfulness in joining your celebration.

2. Highlight the bridal gift they gave you

The essence of your thank-you note is in recognizing the gift. Whether it’s a set of fine china from your aunt or a quirky kitchen gadget from a friend, specifically mention each gift by name and express how it will be cherished or utilized in your new life. Doing so not only personalizes your message but also lets the giver know their selection was a hit!

3. Show appreciation for them attending the bridal shower

A bridal shower forms a vibrant mosaic of love and support, with each attendee adding to the spectrum. Show gratitude for the presence of each guest, whether they came bearing a bridal shower gift or simply their best wishes. Their effort to be there for you deserves a special thank you note, underscoring the joy their companionship brought to the bridal shower dear.

4. Be prompt

Promptness exemplifies considerate thank-you cards. Aim to send them within two weeks following the shower to convey your prompt and genuine appreciation. If life gets in the way, strive not to stretch beyond three months, as the warmth of the shower’s memory lingers with your guests.

5. Handwrite your thank you notes

In the era of pervasive digital communication, a handwritten thank-you card remains a valued exception. It shows you’ve taken the time and care to personally express your thanks. Even if your handwriting isn’t perfect, the effort will not go unnoticed and will add an irreplaceable touch of authenticity to your message.

This is where Handwrytten can help.

10 bridal shower thank-you card message templates

Now, on to the meat and potatoes of this article: wedding shower thank you card templates.

Templates can serve as a beacon for those in search of inspiration or a foundation for their thank-you notes. Here are ten card wording examples to guide you through various scenarios, ensuring that each of your guests receives a message tailored just for them.

NOTE: Customize these templates a bit – no one likes receiving a generic thank you note. Make it fun!

1. Bridal shower thank you note for gifts from your wedding registry

[Guest Name],

I wanted to thank you for attending my bridal shower last Saturday. Your presence meant a lot to me and [Partner Name]. We are very thankful for the lovely tea towels that you gifted to us – they are truly appreciated. These already make a great addition to our kitchen.

We are really looking forward to celebrating with you at the wedding in a few weeks. Your friendship means so much to us!

Love,

[Your Names]

2. Wedding shower thank you note for gifts not from your wedding registry

Dear [Guest Name],

Thank you for being such a thoughtful gift giver. We truly appreciate all the gifts, including the stunning wine glasses, the fresh flowers, and the sweet gift. Your thoughtful gift was such a surprise and has already found a special place in our home. Your thoughtfulness is truly appreciated, and we’re so glad you could be part of the celebration.

Warm regards,

[Your Names]

3. Bridal shower thank you note for unique or unexpected gifts

[Guest Name]

I want to express my gratitude for celebrating with me at the bridal shower. Your presence meant a lot to me. [Partner Name] and I are incredibly grateful for the wonderful French press and coffee beans you gifted us. They have truly brightened our mornings.

Every time we sip our morning brew, thoughts of you come to mind – your presence is (literally) intertwined with our daily ritual. We are truly grateful for the love you have shown us over the years. It has meant more than you can imagine.

Having you in the crowd on the big day will make our day so special. We’re looking forward to celebrating with you. We can’t wait to see you showcase one of your famous moves on the dance floor!

Much love,

[Your Names]

4. Wedding shower thank you note for monetary gifts

Dear [Guest Name],

Your generous gift was a delightful surprise at our shower! We’re planning to put your kindness towards our dream honeymoon in [Destination]. It means the world to us that you’ve contributed to this special time in our lives. Can’t wait to share all the stories with you when we return!

You are such a great friend – with heartfelt thanks,

[Your Names]

5. Bridal shower thank you note for someone who didn’t give a gift

Dear [Guest Name],

Having you at the bridal shower meant so much to us. Your presence was the perfect gift in itself, and we cherished every moment spent laughing and celebrating together. We’re looking forward to creating more memories with you at the wedding!

All our love,

[Your Names]

6. Wedding shower thank you note for someone who couldn’t attend

Dear [Guest Name],

We missed you at the bridal shower but understand that you couldn’t be there. Your well wishes warmed our hearts, and we’re eagerly waiting to see you on the wedding day. Your continuous support throughout this journey has been invaluable.

With love,

[Your Names]

7. Bridal shower thank you note for someone who sent a gift but couldn’t attend

Dear [Guest Name],

I am so sorry you couldn’t make it to the shower, but we are so appreciative of your generous gift. It is such a beautiful vase.

You were truly missed, but we look forward to catching up with you soon and hope to see you at the wedding.

Much love,

[Your Name]

8. Wedding shower thank you note for a formal acquaintance

Dear [Acquaintance Name],

Having you at my bridal shower was such a pleasure. Your presence made the day even more special. Thank you for the lovely [Gift Item], your generosity is truly appreciated. I hope we can get to know each other better and I look forward to seeing you at the wedding.

Best wishes,

[Your Name]

9. Bridal shower thank you note for close friends and family

Dear [Family Member/close Friend],

Your love and support at my bridal shower filled me with joy. The [Gift Item] you chose is perfect and will be treasured as we start our married life. I can’t wait to continue celebrating life’s big moments with you. See you on the big day!

Love always,

[Your Name]

10. Wedding shower thank you note for the person who hosted

Dear [Host’s Name],

Your incredible effort in planning my bridal shower did not go unnoticed. Thank you for creating such a memorable day full of laughter and love. The specific aspects of the shower that were absolutely fantastic and everyone had a wonderful time include (examples: the decorations, the games, the food and drinks, the venue).

I am so grateful for your support during this special time in my life.

With immense gratitude,

[Your Name]

How Handwrytten can automate sending bridal thank-you cards

In today’s digital era, Handwrytten provides a solution for those wishing to uphold the valued tradition of handwritten notes with the ease of automation. Let’s dig into how Handwrytten can enhance your bridal shower thank-you notes by marrying the old-world charm of a personal touch with the efficiency of modern technology.

The Handwrytten advantage

Boasting an 80% open rate, Handwrytten’s notes demonstrate the enduring appeal of a personal touch amidst our digitized world. Our platform offers an easy, streamlined process for creating and sending handwritten thank you notes, making it an excellent option for brides-to-be wanting to convey their heartfelt gratitude without sacrificing time or personalization.

Easily customizable handwritten wedding cards

With a vast array of designs at your disposal, Handwrytten ensures your thank-you cards and wedding invitations embody your personal style and the spirit of your bridal shower. Adding a photo from the celebration or personal branding elements, like a monogram, transforms your message into a keepsake that recipients will treasure, all while styling the font exactly how you want it.Check out some of our designs – click them to go straight to our simple customized card builder!

Send in bulk with Handwrytten’s Bulk Card feature

For those dealing with an extensive guest list, Handwrytten’s Bulk Card feature comes as a blessing. It allows brides-to-be to:

• Send out a large number of personalized thank-you notes with the same ease as sending a single card
• Guarantee that no one is forgotten
• Ensure that each guest receives your gratitude in a timely and elegant manner.

Summary

As we wrap up, remember that a thank-you card is more than a mere formality; it’s an opportunity to reconnect and share your joy about getting into the married life. Whether you opt for traditional handwritten cards or embrace the convenience of services like Handwrytten, the essence lies in the sincerity of your words. May each thank-you you send out be a cherished note that strengthens the bonds you celebrate on your journey to the altar.

Frequently Asked Questions About Bridal Shower Thank You Cards

What do you say in a thank you note for a bridal shower?

Dear [Guest Name],

Thank you so much for attending our bridal shower and for the lovely gift. We truly appreciate your generosity and can’t wait to use the cheese board you gave us for cozy date nights at home. Your presence meant a lot to us and made the day even more special.

Much love,

[Your Names]

How long after bridal shower do you send thank you notes?

Send thank you notes within two weeks of the bridal shower. It’s important to express your gratitude promptly, ideally within two weeks of the event to show appreciation for the guests’ thoughtfulness.

How do you say thank you for cash for a bridal shower gift?

Dear [Guest Name],

Thank you so much for your generous cash gift at my bridal shower! I had a wonderful time celebrating with you. My partner and I have decided to put your thoughtful gift towards a special day trip on our honeymoon in Greece.

Thank you so much!

[Your Names]

Is it acceptable to send thank-you cards for bridal showers digitally?

Sending handwritten thank-you notes for bridal showers is more personal and appreciated by recipients compared to digital cards. Aim to send handwritten notes for a more meaningful impact.

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So, if you’re wondering how to write a thank you card to wedding guests in a kind but efficient way, we’ve got you set. Below we cover the thank you card basics and then provide example templates you can use to get the job done fast!

The meaning of a thank you card for a wedding

The meaning of a thank you card for weddings is to show gratitude to those who took part in your big day. Most guests have given the new couple a gift of monetary value, and all guests have given the gift of their time. So when it comes to saying thank you from a place of honest appreciation, a thank you card should be thought of as a gift, as well.

Picking the correct wedding well wishes should not be taken lightly. You should not write a generalized, simple thank-you message – it should be specific to the wedding theme. Family and friends who were part of your day, whether their roles were large or small, and likely planned and travelled to be there for your special day deserve a sincere thank you card expressing your genuine love and appreciation for having them there. Make sure to pick a card that is tasteful, thoughtful, preferably of higher value, and ensure the message is personal to he recipient.

The basics of how to write wedding thank you card messages

There are five things that every wedding thank you card should contain:

1. A thank you (duh!)
2. Having wording ideas in mind
3. A mention of the gift by name
4. Something you and your spouse appreciate about the gift
5. A classic sign-off

It’s a pretty simple formula, but the task can still seem overwhelming. When there are hundreds of cards to write, you might find yourself lacking in creativity and time.

What do you say about the off-registry birdfeeder your coworker decided to give you? And what about the people who didn’t bring a gift at all?

Don’t worry; we’ve seen it all, and we know exactly how to respond graciously. Below we’ll lay out everything you need to write the perfect wedding thank you card. Let’s start with how to make your life easier: spreadsheets.

Spreadsheets are your friend

When you sent out your wedding invitations, hopefully, you used a spreadsheet. Most couples do, because a spreadsheet is the easiest way to keep track of the guest, their address, their RSVP, and food choices.

As long as you did that, you’re in luck. Just copy the name and address of every wedding guest you invited into a new spreadsheet for thank you cards. Then add columns for the name of the gift, when you received it, and whether you sent a thank-you yet or not. This will help you keep track as you move through the wedding thank you card process.

Don’t procrastinate

As tempting as it is to wait to send thank you’s, it’s not a good idea. Start as soon as possible, and the task will seem less insurmountable.

You’ll likely receive gifts before your wedding or wedding party, and there’s no reason you can’t start penning thank you’s then (if you have time). You can even send them early if you’d like.

We also recommend opening and making note of gifts on your spreadsheet as you receive them. It’s tempting to wait until after the wedding to create a Christmas-morning-like thrill, but it’s harder to make a note of each gift that way. If you receive gifts early, open them, note them, write a thank you, and send it. It makes the process that much easier after the wedding.

Batch the work

As with any never-ending task, it’s best to take things in small bites. Schedule an hour into your evenings or a few hours every weekend to work on it, and you’ll be done before you know it.

On that note, remember that this doesn’t need to be one spouse’s task. You both received the gift and are both capable of writing thank-you cards. Assigning thank-yous by who knows the guest better is a great option.

Handwritten is the only way to go

We know it’s tempting to type thank you cards. Typing is always faster, and it looks neater too. However, digital thank you’s come off as less heartfelt. You want to show you appreciate the gift and don’t want to insult anyone, so handwriting thank you’s is important.

You want to show you appreciate the gift and don’t want to insult anyone, so handwriting thank you’s is important.

If you have terrible handwriting, consider hiring a professional. You can find handwriting services online at reasonable prices, with Handwrytten cards starting at just $3.25 each. No one has to know you didn’t write them yourself.

Specify amounts for cash

When someone gives you money, it’s polite to specify the amount in the thank you card. This is to ease the sender’s mind. That way, they know you received the entire amount you were supposed to, and they don’t worry about any of it being stolen or lost.

Pay attention to the specific thank you card wording

Writing thoughtful thank you cards after a wedding should be an important part of the post-wedding experience. The thoughtful gift and thoughtful words to go with it should go together and make for a thoughtful experience, both for the sender and receiver. Specific thank you card wording can help express sincere gratitude to people who attended your wedding and make them feel special. It is important to pay attention to those details for a better impact on those who have celebrated this joyous occasion with you.

For example, let’s think about some different types of gifts received from wedding guests:

• Wine glasses
• Money meant to be part of your honeymoon fund
• A specific gift that only you and the gift giver understand

You don’t want to just use a generic statement in these situations; saying “thank you for your generous contribution” without actually acknowledging what they gave you would leave a sour taste in their mouth.

Instead, using our below templates, adjust the thank you card wording so that it falls more in line with who you are sending the thank you note.

Example wedding thank you card templates

Writing thank you cards can quickly lead to writer’s block. It helps to have a template that works for each gifting situation.

1. Wedding thank you card template: for standard wedding gifts or off-registry gifts you love

Saying thank you for something you wanted is the easiest part, but in case you’re stuck, try something like this:

Dear Guest,

Thank you so much for the monogrammed towels! They look gorgeous hanging in our bathroom, and they’re so fluffy and soft! We loved seeing you on our wedding day and look forward to getting together again soon! Thank you again for being a part of such a wonderful day.

Love,

You and Your Partner’s Signature

2. Sample wedding card template: wedding gift thank you card for odd off-wedding registry items

For an off-registry item that you’re not sure you’ll use, like that handmade birdfeeder, try to keep the focus on the person rather than the gift.

Dear Guest,

Thank you so much for helping to make our big day so special! (Your Partner’s name) and I loved seeing you, and the bird feeder is lovely. We are both so lucky to count you as a friend!

Thank you for the thoughtful gesture,

You and Your Partner’s Signature

3. Thank you card idea for cash gifts

As noted, for a cash gift/monetary gift, it’s a good idea to include the exact amount you received. It’s also nice to let them know what you’ll do with the money.

Dear Guest,

Thank you for spending our wedding day with us; you truly made it special! We really appreciate your generous $100 gift and look forward to using it on our honeymoon. We’ve been eyeing paddle-boarding lessons and will be sure to send you pictures!

Warmly,

You and Your Partner’s Signature

4. Wedding thank you template for group gifts

If you receive a gift from multiple people, each person should receive a thank you card. However, you should shout out the group as a whole, like so:

Dear Guest,

Thank you for making our day so special, and thanks for the pellet grill! We’ve been using it to cook dinner almost every night! Once we get the hang of it, we can’t wait to have you all over for a BBQ night.

From our entire family to yours,

You and Your Partner’s Signature

5. Thank you card wording for attendees that didn’t bring a gift

Even if a guest doesn’t bring a gift, etiquette states that you say thank you for coming. After all, they joined in your big day! If possible, try to include a personal story from the wedding.

Dear Guest,

We are so glad you made it to our wedding! It truly made the day that much better! Seeing your photo booth pictures were especially fun. Who would have thought you could rock a mustache like that?! We hope you enjoyed the night as much as we did! Your attendance meant a lot to us.

Love,

You and Your Partner’s Name

6. Thank you note template for those who sent a physical gift but couldn’t attend

If someone couldn’t be there but sent a gift, be sure to mention that they were missed! And, if they’re on a future guest list, mention that you look forward to seeing them at the next event.

Dear Guest,

Thank you so much for the dinnerware! It was so thoughtful of you to send a gift. We missed you at the wedding. It just wasn’t the same without you there. But we look forward to seeing you for the holidays and can’t wait to show you the pictures!

Best,

You and Your Partner’s Name

7. Generous gift thank you note template:

If someone sent you a substantially large gift – perhaps contributing a large amount to your honeymoon funds – you should acknowledge them slightly differently than your other wedding guests.

Dear Guest,

We are so grateful for your generous gift of ______. It was thoughtful and it truly makes this day even more special. We are so lucky to have you in our lives, and we want you to know how much it means to us. Thank you for your generosity and friendship.

Warmly,

You and Your Partner’s Name

8. Wedding thank you for cash gifts

It is up to you if you want to mention the amount. It has been considered a faux-pas in the past, but the thinking around this has since changed in recent years (Green Envelope). Now, wedding etiquette suggests indicating specific amounts of gift money received is a positive thing, as it can tell the giver whether or not the correct amount was received, and also just shows that you’re being mindful and attentive of people’s hard earned cash. For example:

Dear Aunt Jackie and Uncle Michael,

Thank you so much for the $200! We appreciate you and your generosity. We plan to put the money towards a new couch that will keep us comfortable for many years to come.

Thank you for being a part of our special day,

Ben and Chloe

9. Wedding gifts thank you card

Most wedding presents that come from the registry are given during a bridal shower, so a thank you has probably already been sent for that generous gift. However, guests sometimes bring a wedding present to the ceremony, which requires special recognition. Here is a thank you card wording example.

Dear Tom and Taylor,

Thank you for the crystal wine glasses! They remind me of my grandmother’s set. They will go perfect on our mantel, and we are sure to make great use of them!

Thank you so much,

Terry and Pauline

10. Wedding thank you for monetary contribution

Parents, grandparents, bridal parties, friends, or others may contribute a group gift of money, specifically for you to put towards the wedding or honeymoon funds. These beautiful humans deserve an extra dose of gratitude. Getting a wedding photographer and putting photos or a honeymoon photo within a custom wedding card is a great way to show them how special they are to you.

Dear Grandma Ida,

Thank you so much for the money that went towards our honeymoon! We never thought we would see paradise the way we could view it on this trip. Here’s a picture of us standing on the beach while seashell hunting.

We would not have been able to do this without your love and support.

Love and thanks,

Becky and Chris

Wedding day thank you card etiquette

The proper etiquette when sending out wedding thank you cards is to get out all thank yous within three months of the wedding day. Wedding guests fully understand that a lot happens between planning the wedding and the after-the-wedding-day responsibilities that can pile up. For example, a new bride has a ton of paperwork to fill out when changing her name, which can take a while to get through.

Even if no name changes are necessary, there are plenty of other obligations to handle after tying the knot, like approving wedding photos, updating medical documents, and perhaps, splitting up closet space.

Keep track of your gifts

It’s a good idea to grab a notebook and pen before opening up the cards and wedding presents that are given to you at your wedding party. Write down each name and the thoughtful gift that you received or the amount of cash that was gifted. It will be an excellent resource to reflect on when giving a personalized touch to the thank you card.

Not all thank-yous should be the same

Having an idea of each guest’s role in your wedding will help determine what kind of thank you the guest will receive. Thank you cards can look the same from the outside, but what it says on the inside will make them unique for each role.

Who should get a thank you card?

If you haven’t thought about it before, you should know that each guest attending your wedding day has a special role. That being said, giving them the proper recognition for their role in your wedding ceremony is essential. In addition, breaking down the roles into groups will make it easier for you to write thank you cards.

Here is a breakdown of who should receive a thank you message.

Wedding guests and a plus one

This is anyone who attended your special day, from extended family to close friends. Usually, these guests have given a monetary gift or a generous wedding gift.

Parents

Parents of both the bride and the groom need to be especially thanked for their role and participation in the glorious day. Many times, a parent will contribute a large sum of money or time to making that special day possible. It’s respectful to show your gratitude for such generous contributions by taking the time to write a thoughtful thank you note to show your appreciation.

Bridal party members

The bridal party includes bridesmaids, groomsmen, and any junior members that were part of the wedding date like the ring bearer or flower girl. For example, you should send a special thank you note to the flower girl and her parents for their select participation on your wedding day.

Guests who couldn’t attend but still sent a gift

These beautiful souls that couldn’t make the long distance to the party, but still found a way to celebrate you and your new life by sending a generous wedding gift. They deserve a big thank you for not only sending a thoughtful gift, but for saving you money, as well.

Wedding vendors

Wedding vendors deserve a thank you card for their participation on your wedding day. This includes wedding planners, florists, catering companies, venues, clergy, hotels, or anyone else that ‘worked’ your wedding day. It doesn’t have to be individual cards to each person per vendor, but a thank you to the company would be a kind gesture.

Anyone who gave a generous gift or contribution

A thank you card should be given to anyone who gave a generous contribution to the wedding financially or in other ways, like running errands, hosting out-of-town guests, picking up guests from the airport, or doing anything that had made your special day less stressful.

Final thoughts on sending a wedding thank you card

Sending thank-yous is essential, but many couples dread the time it takes. Learning how to write thank you cards to wedding guests can make the process more efficient. If you’re still looking for more inspiration, check out this other blog post of thank you card messages. Either way, we want to remind you that these are simply card ideas. Your specific wedding may call for different kinds of wedding thank you cards, but these should give you a good foundation to work from. Using the tips and tricks above, you’ll be done before you know it!

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Frequently Asked Questions About Sending A Wedding Thank You Card

Now that you know what to say and how to say it in a thank-you card, let’s go over a few lingering questions.

How long do I have to send thank you cards?

Standard etiquette demands that you send thank you cards to wedding guests promptly, ideally within 2-3 weeks of any event. However, guests know that you’re in newlywed bliss, and if you’re celebrating a honeymoon, 2-3 weeks isn’t always a feasible option.

So, no one will look down on you if you take a little longer to send thank you cards. Aim to get it done within three months of the wedding date, and you won’t offend anyone.

How long after wedding should you send thank you cards?

In an ideal world, you should send your thank you cards within a month or two of your wedding day. Additionally, all of the details about your special day will be fresh in their minds and will help make their card even more sentimental.

Is it rude not to send thank you cards after a wedding?

It’s not necessarily rude to not send thank you cards, but even still, sending a thank you card is generally expected and appreciated. If you don’t, it indicates that you don’t value your guests’ presence or their gifts. So, etiquette dictates that sending a note of thanks is the polite thing to do.

What should I write in my wedding thank you cards?

Writing from the heart and adding a personal note about the generous gift you received is a great touch when sending out wedding thank you cards.

How do you write a thank you card for money as a wedding gift?

When you receive money as a wedding gift, it’s appropriate to send a thank you card telling the person how much you appreciate their generosity and that it will go towards something valuable in your marriage.

How do you write appreciation messages after your wedding?

A wedding thank you card shouldn’t sound too formal or forced. Instead, it should be an endearing message to express your gratitude for their absolute love and kindness.

How do you thank the bride and groom for a wedding?

From a guest standpoint, the appropriate way to thank a bride and groom for wedding invitations to their wedding is by giving a present or monetary gift that is at least comparable to the price of your wedding dinner plate. It is customary to double the plate cost if you attend the wedding with a plus one.

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When it comes to wedding wishes, there are a lot of things to consider. First and foremost, you want to make sure that your wishes are genuine and heartfelt. Secondly, you’ll want to think about what the couple’s relationship is like and what they might appreciate hearing from you on their big day. Thirdly, you’ll want to choose your words carefully so as not to offend or upset anyone.

With all of that in mind, here are tips on wedding card writing, in what we call the ultimate guide on writing wedding wishes. In it, you will find many ways to wish newly married couple well for a long and happy marriage – we discuss in a separate article the best ways to thank wedding attendees.

Whether the newly married couple is religious, or the wedding is for a family member, or it is for a formal wedding or a casual wedding, here is a long list of what to write in a congratulation message for wedding. For more insights, see our post on sending a congratulations card.

Casual Wedding Wishes

A wedding is a special day to celebrate the love of two people. While religious ceremonies often have their own specific wording, non-religious weddings are more about personalization. You can still congratulate the happy couple and wish them well without using religious language. Here are 14 examples of casual wedding wishes you could write in a non-religious wedding message.

• Wishing you a lifetime of happiness and so much joy together!
• Congratulations on your marriage! Wishing you all the best in the years ahead.
• Best wishes to you both on this wonderful journey, as you build your lives together starting today!
• I’m/We’re so happy for you! Your wedding day will be one to remember always. Congrats and all the best on this new chapter in your lives!
• God bless your marriage and may it be a lifetime of joy and happiness!
• Wishing you loads of love on your wedding day and as you begin your new life together!
• Wishing you two all the best today and in the years to come! Congratulations on your marriage!
• All my/our love on your wedding day and always.
• Congratulations, [Bride] & [Groom]! I/We wish you so much happiness on this special day and for all the days to come!
• Cheers to a beautiful future together full of lots of love, laughter,and adventure!
• With lots of love on your wedding day from (Me/Us)!
• Wishing you two all the best today and in the years to come! Congratulations on your marriage!
• Wishing you a wonderful life and a fun filled future. So happy to share this exciting and joyful day with you, and so happy to celebrat such a great couple!
•  Best wishes to you both on this wonderful journey, as you build your lives together starting today!

Religious Wedding Wishes

The big day is almost here, and you want to make sure that you send the newlyweds your best wishes. But what do you say if it is a very religious couple? If you’re not sure how to express your religious wedding wish, don’t worry. We’ve got you covered. Here are some thoughtful religious warm wishes that you can include in your wedding greeting card.

• On your wedding day, may God bless you with all the happiness and love that you deserve.
• May your marriage be a beautiful reflection of His love for us all.
• Wishing you a lifetime of love and happiness together.
• May the Lord bless your marriage and keep you forever in His love
• Together, may you grow closer to God and deeper in love with each other
• Praying that your marriage is filled with joy, laughter, and unconditional love
• Wishing you a lifetime of happiness as you embark on this holy union
• May Jesus always be at the center of your marriage and the guidepost for your happy life together
• ” Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her” – Ephesians 5:25
• ” submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.” – Ephesians 5:21

If you are looking for the perfect thing to write in a wedding card for your Jewish friends or family, look no further. We have put together a list of 10 Jewish wedding wishes that will be sure to make the couple smile. From traditional blessings to more modern ones, there is something on this list for everyone. So without further ado, here are the 11 best Jewish wedding wishes:

• May you be blessed with a long and happy life together
• May your love for each other continue to grow stronger with each passing year.
• Wishing you loads of happiness on this special day and always.
• Congratulations on your marriage! Wishing you all the best now and always.
• “May the Lord bless you and keep you; may He make His face shine upon you, and be gracious to you; may He lift up His countenance toward you, and give you peace.'” – Numbers 6:24-26
• I am my beloved’s, and my beloved is mine…” – Song of Solomon 8:7
• Mazal tov! Wishing you loads of love, happiness, and good luck on your special day!
• Wishing you a beautiful life together full of love, laughter, and blessings
• May the Almighty always bless you and keep you in His loving care
• I am so happy to bear witness to this mitzvah. Mazal tov!
• May your home always be filled with peace and happiness

Traditional and Formal Wedding Wishes

Are the bride and groom formal? Perhaps one of these traditional wedding wishes is best.

On behalf of the bride and groom’s families, we would like to extend our traditional wedding wishes for a lifetime of happiness and love.

We hope that your special day is everything you have dreamed of and more. Congratulations on this very happy occasion.

Funny Wedding Wishes

When it comes to wedding wishes, there are all sorts of funny sayings and poems out there. If you’re looking for something lighthearted and humorous to write in a card or toast, consider using one of these funny wedding wishes. Just make sure the couple is okay with a little bit of good-natured teasing!

• Best wishes on your big day! Congrats on finally tying the knot… even though, let’s be honest, you were already kind of tied together.
• Wishing you loads of love and laughter on your special day. And if there’s any arguing, just remember, you’re stuck with each other now so you might as well make up!
• Your marriage will be filled with more love than you can ever imagine… and more dirty laundry than you ever thought possible.
• May your love be stronger than your coffee
• I knew you were meant for each other when I saw how much you tolerated each other’s farts
• Best wishes on this exciting journey, as you become the newest members of the ‘old married couple’ club
• Welcome to a lifetime of arguing over who left the seat up and who ate the last piece of cake!
• All that fighting and making up… now THAT is true love!
• ‘Til death do us part’ doesn’t seem so long when I compare it to how long some marriages last these days…

Wedding Messages for a Son

A son’s wedding day is a very special occasion for any parent. On this day, we want to express our love and pride in our son, and wish him all the happiness in the world on his special day. Below are some ideas for wedding messages for a son.

To our dear son, we are so proud of the man you have become and we are truly blessed to have you as our son. We wish you all the happiness in the world on your wedding day and we send you all our love.

To our wonderful son, today is your wedding day and we couldn’t be happier for you! We send you all our love and best wishes on this very special day. Wishing you a lifetime of happiness with your new spouse.

Wedding Messages for a Daughter

Wedding messages for a daughter can be difficult to write. You want to say something that is memorable and heartfelt, but at the same time, you don’t want to overwhelm her with sentimentality. A good rule of thumb is to keep it short and sweet. Here are a few ideas to get you started:

• “I am so proud of the woman you have become. Your wedding day is just one more milestone in your journey of life. I wish you all the happiness in the world on this special day.”
• “Your wedding day is a celebration of your love for one another. May your marriage be filled with love, laughter, and happiness.”
• “Wishing you all the best on your wedding day and as you begin your new life together.”
• On your wedding day, I pray that all of your dreams and hopes come true. I am so grateful to be your father/mother and witness this special moment in your life.
• Seeing you walk down the aisle is going to be one of the proudest moments of my life. I wish you nothing but happiness on this special day and for the rest of your married life.
• You have always been such a blessing in my life, and now you are about to embark on one of the biggest blessings of all – marriage! Wishing you loads of love, laughter and happiness on your wedding day!
• Congratulations on this wonderful new chapter in your lives! May every joyous moment from today forward be treasured for a lifetime by both of you!
• Praying that God’s richest blessings will shower upon you today as well as throughout all the days ahead as husband and wife! Best wishes always!
• Thinking warmly about two very special people whose marriage is an impressive testimony to God’s grace, forgiveness & unfailing love…May these qualities continue to characterize & enrich your lives together as husband & wife from this day forward

Wedding Wishes for a Second Wedding

Words of advice: don’t mention the first wedding! The past is the past. Let’s keep it that way. However you can point towards the future instead of the past, with sayings like:

May this new chapter in your lives be even more beautiful and blissful than the first. Wishing you loads of love, laughter, and happiness always!

As you begin this new chapter in your lives, we wish you loads of love and happiness. Congratulations on your wedding!

May your love continue to burn bright and your lives be full of happiness. Congratulations on your wedding! Wishing you loads of love and happiness on this special day.

Marriage Vow Renewal Wishes

It’s always a special occasion when a couple celebrates their renewal of vows, and it’s even more special when you can be there to share in their happiness. If you’re looking for the perfect way to express your congratulations and well-wishes, why not write them in a card? A renewal of vows is a time to reflect on the past and look forward to the future, so your message should be just as amazing as the occasion itself.

• May the love between you continue to grow stronger with each passing year
• May your marriage be blessed with good health, happiness and plenty of love
• May your lives be filled with laughter and contentment and as much happiness as the world can hold
• Wishing you loads of love, happiness and good luck on this special day
• Congratulations on reaffirming your commitment to one another

What to Write If You Can’t Attend the Wedding

If you are unable to attend the wedding of the wonderful couple, it is appropriate to send a gift and a card with a personal message. In the card, you can express your congratulations and best wishes for the couple’s future together. You may also want to mention how much you are sorry to have missed the wedding and how much you were looking forward to celebrating with them.

• I’m sorry I can’t be there on your special day, but know that I am thinking of you and wishing you all the happiness in the world.
• Wishing you loads of love on your wedding day! I’ll be thinking of you both even though I’m not there.
• Wishing you a lifetime of happiness on your wedding day! I’m so sorry I couldn’t be there to celebrate with you.
• Sending my best wishes to you both on your wedding day! I wish I could be there to celebrate with you, but know that I am thinking of you.
• Can’t wait to hear all about it when you get back!”
• Sending Love From Afar
• I wish you both all the love and happiness in the world on your wedding day! Even though I’m not there in person, know that I am there in spirit.
• Although I cannot attend your wedding in person, I am sending you all my best wishes for a happy and beautiful day. I hope that your marriage is everything you have ever dreamed of and more. I wish you both a lifetime of love, happiness, and adventure. Congratulations on this special occasion!

If It Doesn’t Work Out… Divorce Wishes

Going through a divorce can be really tough, no matter how amicable the split may be. You might not know what to say to your friends or family who are going through a divorce, but a card is always a nice gesture. Here are 10 messages you can use for a divorce greeting card:

• Wishing you strength and courage during this difficult time.
• My thoughts are with you during this tough time.
• I hope you’re surrounded by love and support as you go through this difficult time.
• Sending healing thoughts your way during this tough time.
• If there’s anything I can do to help, please let me know.
• I’ll be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.
• Just wanted to let you know I’m here for you if you need to talk or want some company.
• May your divorce be civil and swift,
  And may all of your troubles soon be gone.
  Wishing you the best during this difficult time,
  And hoping that better days lie ahead.

How to Close a Wedding Wishes Card

Here are some tips on how to close a wedding wishes greeting card. First, think about what kind of relationship you have with the couple. Are they close friends? Family members? Co-workers? Second, consider what kind of message you want to convey. Are you offering congratulations? Wishing them well? Sharing your own memories of their special day? Third, choose your words carefully. A few heartfelt sentences can mean so much more than a generic “Best wishes!” Lastly, don’t forget to sign your name.

Here are some examples of ways to close a wedding wishes greeting card:

• With love on your special day
• Warmest wishes
• Wishing you all the happiness in the world
• May your marriage be blessed with love, joy, and happiness
• Congratulations and best wishes for a lifetime of wedded bliss
• May God bless your marriage with everlasting love and happiness
• Wishing you loads of love on your wedding day!
• With love

How to easily send a wedding card

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